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They think, 'If mom and dad are selfless and do everything for me then how can I be angry at them?

The problem must be me'," says Brad M. Reedy, Ph. All the positive reinforcement, self-esteem boost, and motivation gained from the compliment are lost as soon as 'but' is uttered," explains Adelle Cadieux, a pediatric psychologist at Helen DeVos Children's Hospital. Every parent wants to believe their child is a genius in the making, and having high academic expectations of them can help them do better — up to a certain point. Put all the emphasis on grades and achievement and it will backfire, making them do worse in school, according to a study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.

Aside from the fact that we usually say things we later regret when we're angry or frustrated, staying calm also models for our children how we want them to behave. This is especially true for parents of kids who tend to get easily upset," explains Timothy Gunn , a licensed clinical psychologist. When it comes to getting kids to eat a healthy diet, the science is clear: Focus on the benefits and delicious taste of healthy food, not on negative perceptions of their weight. Commenting at all on weight only worries kids and hurts their self-esteem, according to a study published in study published in Eating and Weight Disorders.

Telling kids a food is healthy backfires big time, say researchers from the University of Chicago. Instead of focusing on nutrition, kids assume that anything healthy will taste bad and reject it. Want your kids to polish off their broccoli? Tell them how yummy it tastes and how much fun it is to eat it. On a bad day, you may see yourself as an ugly fat slob, but your child sees you as the most beautiful, amazing human who has ever lived — and they want to grow up to be just like you.

So when you criticize your body, not only are you denigrating someone they love, you're teaching them to feel the same way about their bodies, say researchers from Notre Dame. Even if your child doesn't respond by saying, "And you're okay now," that's probably what they're thinking. Your children will model their behavior based upon yours — if you're not educated enough to explain to your kids why taking drugs is dangerous, don't give them tacit license to use because you did," says Dennis Poncher , author and founder of the support group network Because I Love You.

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They need to know it is okay to feel happy, sad, angry, or whatever. Besides, we would never tell an adult to stop crying, so why should we say it to children? Telling them that it isn't invalidates and shames them for their emotions. Not only are they then upset about the original issue, but they're ashamed or embarrassed about how upset they are on top of that.

These comments never ever help anyone — children or adults — actually feel better or calm down," explains Rebecca Schrag Hershberg, PhD, director of early childhood training at Ramapo for Children and Founder of Little House Calls. You can never get through to a child when they're throwing a tantrum. Instead, the best thing to do is remain calm yourself, don't take the bait, and be patient while validating their feelings," says Denise Daniels, parenting and child development expert and inventor of Moodsters.

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It's easy to get annoyed and brush it off, but you should take it seriously," Daniels says. Often, there's an underlying reason as to why they aren't able to accomplish what's being asked of them. Parents attack a child's self-esteem and self-worth with this statement. And let's face it, none of us have ever been motivated to do better by being called lazy," says Stacy Haynes , a child psychologist.

Nagging never works; kids have very selective listening and they'll tune you right out. Instead, try asking open-ended questions to get to the root of what's going on," says Daniels. If a child is doing a behavior that seems babyish, look at the situation," says Daniels.

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Instead of shaming them, listen to their feelings. If you don't understand why you child is doing something, ask them, and then try and remember an experience when you were in a similar situation," Daniels says. Most people lose themselves in childhood and spend the rest of their life trying to find it," Reedy says.

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There was an error. General Comment Okay, I see both the sex and divorce theories to an extent.

This is what I got out of the song The first verse is the initial "hookup". That's pretty damn obvious. Second verse is the girl not giving a fuck about him anymore and getting ready to leave him. General Comment I see this as another divorce type song. He seems to be saying that people want them to stay together, but maybe a lot of those people are saying just "do it for the kids. General Comment Hmmm General Comment Sex? Wow, I really never would have thought that.

Did he really say that? I want to hear it for myself. It really does seem like a divorce type song. General Comment This song is awesome-best one on the CD in my opinion. General Comment The chorus is the best part of this song, it fucking rules!

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General Comment The best part is at the end when Slash starts doublepicking over the Chorus. First time I heard I was on my bike and i nerly crashed. It just stopped the world around me. Corto Maltese. Corto Maltese I was a bit better I actually smashed my car to the very first line of it..