Women are full of paradoxes. Women may say one thing, yet mean another.
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With that being said, both men and women will continue to grow and learn about themselves after dating different people. Yes, this means women will outgrow the jerks. They will exhaust themselves from men buying them drinks at clubs and instead, pursue dreams of settling down and buying a house. They will long for security and a nice guy to love them unconditionally, rather than one who leaves them tirelessly piecing together suspicious alibis.
The lies will get old and so will the waiting. Unfortunately, often times we don't know what's good for us until we've been exposed to what's bad for us. Women need to get their hearts broken and self-esteem perished once, twice or maybe three times to recognize what they deserve. Thanks, jerks. Your emotionless charm and excessive lying serves to help women grow from being the naive girls they once were. Like any other stereotype, only sometimes true.
Being nice isn't a bad thing, but being TOO nice is. When you're overly nice and sympathetic, you make it easy for people to walk all over you and use you. You might go out of your way just to avoid hurting people's feelings, even if what you were about to do or say didn't really have the potential to hurt. If you apply these traits to a guy interested in a girl, chances are she might not even take him seriously.
Also a nice guy might think that all he has to do is be nice to girl and give her compliments and voila , sex will fall out. If you are this guy, then yes, you will The nice guy is not manipulative , instead he just has no idea how dating and the world works. If he were manipulative and trying to take advantage of her, he should be called the "manipulatively nice guy " or something like that. If the term "nice guy" only referred to guys who are respectful of women, the phrase "nice guys finish last" probably wouldn't exist.
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They do not get to float freely down the mainstream; they must swim against the current. They cannot rest on the orthodox power to foreclose dissent, and they are not supported by the unanimity of bias that passes for objectivity. The pretentious drivel is just pouring out of your keyboard NinthHour. If this is your attitude, it is no wonder you're not getting laid, and probably why you don't even have a stable job. Let me fill you in on what people are hearing you say: "Women are stupid. They are too dumb to realize that they are brainwashed by the corporate fascists.
Here is the real reason woman date Alpha males and the nice guys finish last. It has to do with Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Woman and men put security ahead of conversation which is what you have to offer. They want to know that they are safe from the things that go bump in the night. You probably won't even admit that there are things that go bump in the middle of the night that you need protection from. You're a whiner. You blame everyone else for the situation the world is in. Alpha males don't. They move to the top of the hierarchy. Their money, minds, and body's are screaming out "you're secure with me.
If Ninth Hour were wrong you would not need to insult him or even reply to his post.. Also, you assumed that he does not have a steady job If you are a decent guy, stop being overly nice to women. I learned this at the age of Treat her with the common courtesy that you would extend to anyone, male or female. Also, expect NOTHING from a woman, Don't expect love and affection that's what you get from a pet ; don't expect compassion that's what you get from friends.
If you expect love and affection from a woman you will get your head handed to you. If you are a decent guy, she basically considers you to be trash on the sidewalk. Don't reward her shitty behavior. Stop kissing her ass. Don't compliment her and don't approach her. Alpha males, thugs and assholes don't chase women; women chase them. If you want to understand women, take a good, hard look at the guys they date. Look at how these guys these women. Stop eyeballing the women and look at the guys they date. It will tell you everything you need to know. So great that means I'll always be alone.
I was taught to be nice now I find out women love the asshole! BUT If i turn into the asshole, they won't like women! You women are sick and twisted! When women say they want a nice guy they mean a cool guy with a soft side. Women never said they wanted a spineless, nerdy loser. I studied calculus and physics in college and that sounds more difficult. Guess I'm out. No problem, there are lots of guys to take up the slack.
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I do not remember which article from this website that I read but I believe this is true: "Niceness is not goodness". So, if a guy is a nice guy, he does things to his date to try to get something back and that shows neediness or arlarming. But if he does things out of goodness, then it doesn't show the neediness or phony.
But it still depends on his date to interpret his actions. My advice on my earlier post was to: 1. Expect nothing from women ie. Just expect basic civility. Treat them exactly as you would treat anyone , male or female. Gender neutral. Being courteous and that's it.
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You'll need a computer and areliable internet connection Freelance job onfollowing web A man does his thing and come what may. A niceguy overthinks and overfeels. A woman's choice is pretty obvious, isn't it? Don't worry ladies, I'm a kind, nice, good guy. I have confidence when talking to girls, I can make them laugh with me, I'm generous, I get the drinks but I'm not sexist so I allow you to get the drinks too But don't worry ladies, I won't be bothering you anymore!!!
When I see a girl I've known for awhile I will not ask her out. I'll just be lonely and alone and single forever! Because that's what you wasn't it?!? Because I'm not good looking or rich. So don't worry, I won't bother you anymore.
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Thank-you ladies. But now I'm not nice am I? Well like I said I won't bother you. I'll just die alone and unloved. Thank-you, ladies, thanks. And just to clarify, niceguys' nerves are more sensitive, so they have a lower level of emotional strength. They will only attract women under their level. Men with less sensitive nerves have a higher level of emotional strength. So they attract more women.
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The only women they don't attract are the ones above their level - which are not so many. And please, stop blaming strong men for being insensitive, and stop blaming women for feeling attracted by strength and insensitivity - it is nature's design for the preservation of the species. There is also the case of strong women who attract a load of "niceguys" men of lower emotional strength , and who have hard times finding a man above their level of emotional strength.
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So how would you describe the Submitted by Anonymous on May 19, - pm. So how would you describe the women who are not attracted to greedy aggressive jerks? Rare Submitted by dkjnejd on May 20, - am. Nice guys Submitted by Anonymous on November 15, - pm. Yes, nice guys do finish last Submitted by dkjnejd on May 19, - am. Nice guys lose in two ways: 1 They are outright rejected. It sucks to be nice. Men need to be taught to be jerks for their own happiness.
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